No one likes to be made a public example for bad behavior.
My husband Norm has often shared a story from his school years. Students were talking amongst themselves in the school auditorium. They were chatting when they should have been listening to a presentation by the school principal. Annoyed, the principal looked out among the crowd; he pointed to my husband and told him to come up to the platform.
Norm just happened to be wearing a bright red shirt that day. He stoo